Saturday 25 April 2015

Opinion: "Love at first sight"


Love at first sight it is called. You get enchanted with your eyes falling on  that feminine curves. She has got it, back and front in the right proportion.
His thick voice struck your ears, on turning back to see who just called your attention, by "Hi Damsel", you starred on a tall figure with broad chest, charming eyes and great smile. Am I right?????? As in finding yourself in love with someone you are meeting for the very first time. At a friends birthday, party eatery, wedding, the list is endless.

Yeah! That's it. I overheard someone talked about "Love at first sight". This is not new to us. But the meaning and recent opinion shared by this man is worth sharing with you.. Like seriously I have been trying to comprehend and see through this gentle man's eyes. How and what brought about his views on this said piece of words "Love at first sight"

In this gentle man's context, "Love at first sight" is fallacious in its conclusion and contrary in its meaning. He said "There is nothing of such". As a man or woman; emotionally mature and psychologically stable, we have a pre conceive idea, information and standard about our said choice of counterpart. Little will one think about it before giving up for it. And once such things happens, it is hence called "Love at first sight"

It has been seen, nurtured and accepted in one's heart, seeing the description of one's mental image makes the rapport less casual.

A lady once said "If you see a guy you would want to have continuous conversation with, little will you think of it before even establishing a rapport with him.

However, since human opinions and views differs, one may not be able to draw straight conclusion about love/relationship related issues.

In another lady's  conversation about her hubby. She said "I never like him from the beginning, he was not my choice of man". "Tall, handsome, fair in complexion, he his a pastor for that matter" ... Haabaa". But after few months of persistence, she gave in and are both happily married.

She never loved him from the beginning and with time...... There love story became reality.



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